Friday, January 29, 2010

Signs Your Ex Wants You Back

. Your ex tells you that he/she is not planning to get married yet. Another sign to show that your ex is still open for a fresh start with you.

. Your ex is very happy when she/he is around you. (Do not think that your ex is probably happy because he/she broke up with you/another sign that I learn from my ex)

. Your ex does not mind at all to flirt with you. This could mean your ex wants to reunite or your ex may just want to have sex with you. So be careful with this one.

. Your ex tells you that he/she is only interested with his/her new job or career etc and tells you how important it is to him/her. It means your ex is open for a fresh start with you. It also means that your ex is having a tough time trying to keep you out of his/her head.

. Your ex is out dating with someone and somehow you came to know about it. This means that your ex wants to make you jealous or punish you. She/he deliberately did it in such a way that you will come to know about it. Your ex is just using that person she/he is dating to get at you. Your ex is craving for attention here

. Your ex changes her/his mobile phone number, emails, etc and you have no way to contact your ex. This could be for months and even years. It means your ex is giving you the silent cold treatment and is punishing you so that you will treat him/her right and not do or say those things that hurts and disappoint your ex anymore.

. Your ex is quite open with you, talks more than she/he used to. It means your ex wants to please you.

If you do not see any one of the signs above do not despair but please read on to learn how your ex is still thinking about you and how those experiences you had with your ex still remains deep inside of your ex.

Dealing with Fear in order to get your ex back.

The number one enemy that you will always have to deal with when getting your ex back is F.E.A.R. Fear will always show up in your mind and if you do not learn how to deal with it you will eventually make decisions to give up in your pursuit of getting your ex back. Many people failed because they do not know how to deal with fear

It has also been said that many people do not get what they want in life because they allow fear to dominate their lives. Do not give in to fear and do not let it paralyze your decisions to get your ex back

One Simple Way to deal with Fear in order to get your ex back.

Facts: It is reported that 90% of our fear never comes to pass. And that means 90% of our FEAR is false evidence appearing real

Here is one simple way to prove this: Try to remember all those fears that you thought would happen in your life or in the life of someone last year. Did it come to pass? (Example: I am often in fear and thought many times that we are going to have a plane crash but it never happened)

Fear cannot dictate or paralyze you unless you yield or allow it. It has no power over you

Every time you are challenged by fear just remind yourself what Fear is (False evidence appearing real) and that 90% of our fears will never happen.

And remind yourself this quote;

"You miss 100% of the shots you do not take."

-Wayne Gretzky

Knowing the above facts will help you to stay focus and with your commitment to getting your ex back.

Psychological facts you must know before getting your ex back.

This fact will give you an edge in restoring your relationship. Let me get straight to the point here. There is one psychological fact which is the main reason of why so many people were able to reunite with their ex. And these people broke up because of cheating, lying, adultery, verbal and physical abuse, drug and alcohol abuse, lose of interest, lost of passions, indifference, etc.But these same people reunite with their ex simply because of this one psychological fact though they may not be aware of this fact. And this psychological fact is the Subconscious Mind. Some called it the inner mind.

There are many definition on the subconscious mind but I will use only one here simply because of its relevancy.

Web Definition:

• The part of consciousness where all experience is stored as a set of sensory data, see, hear touch, taste, smell, etc.

Now that is really interesting and powerful because this tells us that we cannot forget people and the experiences we had with them though we many not be aware of it. This means that your ex still remembers you and all those good times you had together. And of course this is probably the reason why you cannot forget about your ex. Now we come to the most important part and the most important steps for you to take in order to get your ex back. And that is to learn how you can rekindle those love and passion that once resides within your ex.

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